3 months and orphaned
“I am old and I have been left with this four grandchildren to look after, and on top of that, one of them is a little baby of only three months,’ said the 57-year-old grandmother, Mutshekwa Nehelula.
“Last year October my son died of AIDS and left his pregnant wife behind. We hoped that maybe she would survive, but after a couple of months she also passed away while being treated at the Donald Fraser hospital,” she added.
Mutshekwa’s 18-year-old granddaughter, Mbuelo Nehelula, is very upset after losing both her parents.
“I thought that maybe my father died because he was not taking his ARVs as instructed, but I didn’t expect my mother to die because she was always taking her ARVs. I don’t know what went wrong but the truth is my heart is very sore because I lost both my parents, and now we are all orphans,” said a heart broken Mbuelo.
“I never wanted my sister’s baby to grow up without parents, but one cannot change the will of God. All we are left to do is to accept the fact that she is gone and move on,” said Mukona Thomani, the deseased younger sister.
“I wish everyone on ARVs can follow the instructions we have given them. It is very important for them to take their ARVs so that they can stay healthy and live longer. I really feel for the family and all the tragedy they are going through and I hope this will be a lesson to someone out there for them to take their ARVs,” said Mashudu Nekhavhambe, a junior stuff member at Matavhela clinic.
Thendo Khangale, a 37-year-old neighbour of Mutshekwa Nehelula said he felt sorry for the children. “I feel very sad for what has happened to my neighbours. What pains me more is that the poor baby is left under his old grandmother who also has other grand children to look after. She is only depending on her pension and the child support grant of two grand children to support the family,” he said.
Suprise Nemalale is an OurHealth Citizen Journalist reporting from the Vhembe health district in Limpopo.
Author
-
Health-e News is South Africa's dedicated health news service and home to OurHealth citizen journalism. Follow us on Twitter @HealtheNews
View all posts
Republish this article
This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NoDerivatives 4.0 International License.
Unless otherwise noted, you can republish our articles for free under a Creative Commons license. Here’s what you need to know:
-
You have to credit Health-e News. In the byline, we prefer “Author Name, Publication.” At the top of the text of your story, include a line that reads: “This story was originally published by Health-e News.” You must link the word “Health-e News” to the original URL of the story.
-
You must include all of the links from our story, including our newsletter sign up link.
-
If you use canonical metadata, please use the Health-e News URL. For more information about canonical metadata, click here.
-
You can’t edit our material, except to reflect relative changes in time, location and editorial style. (For example, “yesterday” can be changed to “last week”)
-
You have no rights to sell, license, syndicate, or otherwise represent yourself as the authorized owner of our material to any third parties. This means that you cannot actively publish or submit our work for syndication to third party platforms or apps like Apple News or Google News. Health-e News understands that publishers cannot fully control when certain third parties automatically summarise or crawl content from publishers’ own sites.
-
You can’t republish our material wholesale, or automatically; you need to select stories to be republished individually.
-
If you share republished stories on social media, we’d appreciate being tagged in your posts. You can find us on Twitter @HealthENews, Instagram @healthenews, and Facebook Health-e News Service.
You can grab HTML code for our stories easily. Click on the Creative Commons logo on our stories. You’ll find it with the other share buttons.
If you have any other questions, contact info@health-e.org.za.
3 months and orphaned
by Health-e News, Health-e News
February 5, 2013